Feedback-Thoughts on Emergency Fund

As we are handling public money we need to have some norms that are focused and pertinent !!!

There were deserving cases, are deserving cases and will be deserving cases : IF YOU START LOOKING AT THE ROOT CAUSES for these calamity, catastrophe, exigency situations, it will have some bad tastes. Looking at all three deaths...the underlying reason was drinks and poverty. Pritvirajan was taken to Bombay and Raviman arranged a job and stay: he went in search of drugs. Vijayaman started a soda factory / bicycle shop in 1960s .... went abroad, returned, ventured into various businesses including selling lotteries; lost lot of money in the share market; Chandraman was helped during the surgery, after surgery he started drinking : ALL 3 INVITED POVERTY AND BAD TIME FOR THEIR WIFE AND CHILDREN AND SORROW TO THEIR PARENTS !!!.

Each person’s outlook and judgement will vary from that of others. What wrong did the wife and children do that they have to suffer for their husbands sins or wrongs....I know how much of pain it is to be poor..people speak of scholarship for fees ..but is it not only school/ college fees that school going kids have to bear...there are so many other expenditure..books, other fees, uniform travell...Also it is difficult for a women to facilitate both ends meet along with taking care of children. Have seen so many of them.. at least they had their achamma. But these kids do not have achamma like Vava muthu or Janu Muthu. Not only this family but also Unni chettans... People feel all are well off these days...But I know atleast 4 families who are not.

So when we stretch, sacrifice and serve the real needy and deserving ones, we must adapt some measures. THE MAN MADE PROBLEMS MUST GET REDUCED, WE SHALL USE SOME CHECK POINTS TO SEE THAT THE "GOOD' WE DO GET CONVERTED INTO "GOOD RESULTS". THAT MUST BE THE FUNDAMENTAL SPIRIT. IT IS A ONE SIDED FAIR DEAL !!!

WE CANNOT GET 100% PADDY FROM RICE FIELDS : LITTLE "pathiru" WILL BE THERE. PEOPLE SHOULD NOT TAKE EVERYTHING FOR GRANTED .... ( we Are not kaveri or ganga !!! ) Have suggested that when kids qualify they donate a portion of their first salary to this fund. But we cannot expect anything in return when we do something...Kids are brought up by parents in hopes..but all don't meet expectation....We need to accept the fact and move on....Nobody can change destiny... Some may argue - it is not destiny ............ it is the urge to attain momentary pleasure, which create this poor segment !!!

THERE IS A NEED FOR A RIGHT MESSAGE TO PERCOLATE !!!

People boost of their and others achievements and want to take credit for all goods. But when things are not good and you don’t find any return, there are not many to help. My heart goes to them. For each their own...Don't know what is right or wrong cause right and wrong are manmade.. As my father would say what/which is right depend on the direction you stand...the way or side you are looking at. You see only what you see in the direction you stand and look. But for a more right decision we must turn our neck which the almighty has made to have a >180 degree vision. Try to use it ............. (But even it would go only 180 degree and not 360 degree) So it is difficult to completely judge others.

We should not advertise how much each person contributes – it is left to each person’s sweet will and there are no compulsions; only names would be mentioned.

" Nanmakal cheyyunnathinoppam thinma kurakkuvanum sramikkanam !!!!”