Emergency Fund!

We had been pondering over the noble steps to support those in need - weather it be medical, educational or financial.


We do have yet another family who had gone through crises now and the need to have funds have become the need of the hour.


- We cannot buy Health - But we can support our family members in medical needs.
- We cannot remove Poverty - But we can support family members by helping them in Education - So they become self sufficient.
- We can provide aid to support emergency - To meet daily needs, facilitate wedding, house construction, funeral etc.

All that it needs is 'Willing Hearts'!


Time and again we have come across people in need - As mentioned in the post on 'The Beginning' on June 17th 2006:

After the death of Rajanman (Kodakara) without having money to buy medicine the thought of forming Kudmayogam was initiated.

After the death of Vijayaman his children struggled with their education.

Now it was Chandranman - we were just thinking about the ways to support the family with childrens education, and then we had the sudden demise.

There are still family members struggling who can be supported.

Note :- The fund pooled would be utilised for supporting various causes and not just one. We would have seperate fund and accounts for this

People have time to judge, complaint and criticise. They have energy and mindset to correct things across the globe. But when it comes to family - It is not thier duty - But that of somebody else! Of the siblings!!

The rule of the thumb is as you help - Expect Nothing in return! Not even a word of kindness!!

Whatever amount you contribute – small or big – is not important. Every paisa matters because it will go a long way in redefining the needs of those required. In the interest of financial transparency, we publish the names of all the donors here and also summary of how the fund is utilised.

You find time for things you want to do......it is a matter of priority.



Family First!! All Willing Hearts - All the Best!

Any thoughts, views and suggestions are most Welcome!!

Happiness Always!!!

Imagine life as a game in which you are juggling some five balls in the air. You name them - Work, Family, Health, Friends and Spirit and you're keeping all of these in the Air.

You will soon understand that work is a rubber ball. If you drop it, it will bounce back. But the other four Balls - Family, Health, Friends and Spirit - are made of glass. If you drop one of these; they will be irrevocably scuffed, marked, nicked, damaged or even shattered. They will never be the same. You must understand that and strive for it."

WORK EFFICIENTLY DURING OFFICE HOURS AND LEAVE ON TIME. GIVE THE REQUIRED TIME TO YOUR FAMILY, FRIENDS & HAVE PROPER REST.

Many of my friends have often asked me - "Many times when i saw your ' Happiness Always' wishes, i used to wonder how a person can be happy always in life"? I would tell them - work to live - and the most important thing - is Health and Freedom - That gives me happiness! Yes you need money to live - and you cannot say money is not important in life, untill you have enough of it; but life has tought me, inspite of the amount of money you have; you cannot buy life, health or family.

Your Thoughts Please!!

Kudmayogam 2014

Gentle reminder on this year's kudumbayogam which is on May 11th(Sunday) @ NSS Hall ,Kodakara Please share this and inform all thottappilly members. ALL THE MEMBERS OF OUR FAMILY ARE REQUESTED TO COME AND ATTEND THE FUNCTION MAKE IT A GRAND SUCCESS



Mother.....Mothers day....we are proud of you our parents and grandparents...

We did have various events this year, two awesome dances by the cousins, 2 Monoact on Mother but the highlight that came out at the spur of the moment was the skit with maximum participation from Rema Chechis family members...Awesome and memorable it was!

Wrong & Strong

Sense of personal worth and peace of mind does not need to be disturbed because someone says or does something hurtful.

People who know that God loves them perfectly and unconditionally can forgive those who may say or do something hurtful and are free from anger, bitterness, resentment and grudges. But we cannot make those understand, who just want to balme others and point fingures on others for reasons, created and understood by them alone. The story of your life has many chapters. One bad chapter doesn't mean it's the end of the book... People will always tell you what you did wrong, but will hesitate to compliment you for what you did right. .. When someone is telling you that you can't do something,.. don't quit, just smile on them and say "I'll show you." Don't count the number of friends you have, but the number of friends you can count on... Beauty is about living your life & being happy with yourself inside & out & not worrying about what people think of you... Nobody has the power to make things perfect, but everyone has been given countless chances to make things right.. Also, not every person is going to understand you and that's okay. They have a right to their opinion and you have every right to ignore it... Don't put a lot of concern into what people think of you ... Why? because, you weren't created to please ...

Just be yourself ... and always remind yourself that no one can play your role better than you ...Do your duty and Be Happy! Yes dears, you need to do your duty and not find excuses - Else you will regret to face the truth!

"There will always be people in your life who treat you wrong. Be sure to thank them for making you strong." - Zig Ziglar